So I mentioned that we are going to a horse show this weekend, right?

It will be Knight’s first ever and my first in a long, long time. What’s a horse show without a little stress? It’s all a character building experience. I think.

Nothing is going as planned. Here’s the lowdown.

horse show dilemmas

“Lady, I have raced at every track in CA! A show is no big deal.” -Knight

The Problems: I got an email from the horse show organizer yesterday (Tuesday) that she had received my check but was sorry to inform me that there were no more stalls. (This after an email I received ten days earlier which said, “I have you confirmed for a stall.”)

UPDATE 1:38 p.m. May 28th: Houston, we have a stall! The show is a go! Butterflies in my stomach, go away.

I was disappointed but thought, “Hey, more time to practice for the next show.” My riding has not been stellar of late due to the other problem: Knight is getting fitter, therefore is more difficult to tire out.

He starts out our rides mellow and quiet, then we canter and do a little jumping and he gets amped. Not crazy amped, but race-track forward. As in, “Why bother jumping from my hindquarters and approaching from a reasonable distance? I can just take the long spot and FLY over. And then I can land and go even faster!”

This is a solvable problem, but challenging for me as. . .

this is the point during our ride where I’ve been riding and riding and so I’m more tired and riding weaker. Instead of being more commanding, I’m thinking, “Walk break! I really need a sip of water. Why is my heart pumping so fast? I work out at the gym. It’s not like I’m a couch potato except for riding. Is it too wimpy to ask to go use the restroom?”

I literally got off and went to use the ladies room in the middle of a lesson a few weeks back. I am a coffee drinker, but that wasn’t the cause. Which leads me to yet another problem. When Knight gets pumped about his job he will occasionally start jumping our 2 foot fences as though they’re a Puissance wall. It’s all just a little too exhilarating for me.

But I digress from the original problem of the lack of a stall.

Upon further investigation (i.e., a friendly phone call from my trainer), the show organizer is working on trying to get me and the other girl (a junior) stalls. We will have our answer by 9:30 a.m. (Pacific) on Thursday.

The Clothes: I purchased a new riding helmet which cost more than my total monthly board bill for my first horse, boots, and had my old jacket’s sleeves/cuffs lengthened. When I wore the hunt coat at my final show with DC ten years ago (which I didn’t know would be our last show) it wasn’t tailored because it was a last-minute-ish purchase.

The jacket is navy and has a very, very slight, lighter-than-a-pinstripe grayish line that is running through the navy in a large checked pattern. It is NOT a checked pattern and if you saw it from eight feet away you’d think it’s just a navy jacket. (I know this because I hung it up and backed away from it–it looks navy). I’ll probably be very early 21st Century and out of style, but it’s just a schooling show.

I had this realization that I don’t have any nice riding gloves. The ones I use for schooling Knight literally had a piece of either partially eaten hay that was spit out or a wad of manure in the velcro. Very classy.

I am hoping that there is a small mobile tack shop on the grounds because due to having a job and the realities of LA/OC traffic, I will be unable to buy gloves between now and Saturday (note to self: check Amazon Prime).

The Horse Gear: I have a new saddle (and it’s not a CWD), more on that later. It is super comfy and once flocked a bit more will fit Knight superbly. It is making very funny noises when I post.

I don’t have a girth that fits. I have a nice leather one that is waaay too big, and two smaller ones that kind of work, but not awesomely. I actually purchased a new girth (to go with the saddle) but it’s on back order.

Saddle pad. Where is my show pad?

It has been a long week already, but I did have a nice ride this evening. My horse seemed relaxed and responsive. He did trip behind at one point during the ride. I diligently rode over to the area to see if he lost a shoe. No shoe. I rode out of the arena to get on dirt to see the shoes and the back two were still intact.

But when I picked Knight’s back hooves, this is what I found.

horse show dilemmas

Is it just me or is this a loose shoe?

Will we be showing this weekend? Not sure. If we do go to the horse show, it should be fun. If we don’t I might just throw on my fancy new helmet, my circa 2005 show jacket and ride with the manure gloves around the arena at home and pretend we’re in the Olympics.

Cantering our Xs and two foot verticals.

Your Turn to Talk: What are your weekend plans? What do you do to cope when your best laid plans run amok?

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20 Comments

  1. Jan Westmark May 28, 2015 at 6:07 am - Reply

    no CWD – ha! No loose shoe! Hope you get a stall and you get to show – the Olympics awaits!!

  2. Rodney's Saga May 28, 2015 at 6:29 am - Reply

    Go.

  3. Lauren May 28, 2015 at 7:40 am - Reply

    In my humble and most friendly of friendliest blogger opinion – these seem like excuses 😉 Your first show will NEVER seem like the perfect time… go! I will be sitting in my house hoping it doesn’t rain.

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 28, 2015 at 7:43 am - Reply

      You have a point but for reals. . . if there’s no stall I don’t see how I can show. I don’t own a trailer. We’ll be dropped off. I don’t have a groom. Details, details! Guess I’ll know at 9:30 today!

  4. Carolyn Miele May 28, 2015 at 8:48 am - Reply

    Haha great read!! I understand all too well ! Updating my show wardrobe has cost me a fortune!
    Plus, I’m old enough! Don’t need my out of date show clothes proving the point!
    I too am jumping 2 feet right now and actually I’m thrilled!
    Hope you go and have fun!!!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 28, 2015 at 8:51 am - Reply

      Thanks, Carrie!

  5. firnhyde May 28, 2015 at 9:32 am - Reply

    This weekend it’s me (confidence: low, riding ability: capable when not nervous), Magic (confidence: high, jumping ability: rather too high), and Vastrap (confidence: variable, jumping ability: erratic) and a schooling show (venue: enormous, spectators: high-up in the showjumping world). What could possibly go wrong?
    In all honesty, when stuff goes wrong, I generally put my fingers in my ears and bull through it. Just before Magic’s last show (like, the day before), I faceplanted onto a jump. I went to the show with a rather fascinating array of scabs and bruises on my face and a rather disturbing feeling in the pit of my stomach, but we were awesome anyway. So now I just do it.

  6. emma May 28, 2015 at 9:40 am - Reply

    i think if you get a stall, the other reasons shouldn’t be enough to deter you – especially the gear problems. fingers crossed that it works out – whatever you decide!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 28, 2015 at 9:44 am - Reply

      I’ll definitely go if a stall surfaces.

  7. Liz Goldsmith May 28, 2015 at 10:08 am - Reply

    I hope you get your stall. It’s a PIA to be at a show with no place to park your horse. If not a stall, maybe a teen from your barn to act as groom? I wouldn’t let the minor equipment issues put you off. But then again, I’m a foxhunter :). If I let minor inconveniences like forgetting my stock tie set me back, I’d miss out on all the fun! As for the fitness issues, I understand that completely. Freedom is fit as a fiddle and bursting with energy. I generally take a nap after I hunt him. No relaxing.

  8. Becky May 28, 2015 at 12:25 pm - Reply

    I’ll fly out and hold your horse, get your butt to that show! The first one’s the hardest. This weekend, I’m working on Saturday, and going to my first horsey playday on Sunday (sadly, I’m not taking a horse, I’m just going to watch, but it’ll be interesting to see what happens). I haven’t ridden for weeks (I have an issue with my ride and his saddle not being kept at the same location, and it being a seemingly impossible task to get the two things in the same place), and I’m getting pretty bummed. Partly because approximately 50% of me is primed and ready to go, as I’d have been due at camp by now had I chosen to go back…

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 28, 2015 at 1:37 pm - Reply

      I love that I could have an international groom! How fun would that be. Well, the good news is that we have stalls! The other person showing and me.

      • Liz Goldsmith May 28, 2015 at 2:00 pm

        Great news! Just remember to leave your nerves at home. It’s funny, when I hunt I’m sometimes nervous right up until I sit on the horse. Once I’m mounted, I feel like I can do it.

  9. Nicole Sharpe May 28, 2015 at 7:01 pm - Reply

    My weekend plans are to haul baby horse out to practice dressage somewhere scary and foreign and think happy thoughts for you AT YOUR SHOW! No loose show, new saddle, what color/size girth do you need? Maybe we can overnight you one from my barn. GO SHOW!!!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 28, 2015 at 7:24 pm - Reply

      Aww. . Thanks Nicole. That is super kind of you. Have fun at your show. I am borrowing a girth I found my saddle pad and the Showgrounds is close to a tack shop so I think I can buy some new gloves to look respectable.

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