Previously on Saddle Seeks Horse my trainer and I were about to journey south to San Diego County to try out a bay and gray, both 10 year-old Thoroughbred geldings standing 16.2.

The bay is being boarded at the owner’s friend’s house in a very rural area. There were goats in pens lining the dusty arena where we conducted our test rides.

The bay is gorgeous. He looks like a Fred Stone painting or a regal marble sculpture of a horse. The owner hopped aboard and rode him around for about 5 minutes, during which time I thought, “there’s a hunter.” He just flowed on a loose-ish rein. Mesmerizing.

My trainer remarked he looked sticky behind. It was slight and I didn’t see it because I was enthralled with his good looks. He worked out of it a bit and then the owner jumped him over a one foot vertical. (There was only one jump in the arena because it’s a community arena and it seemed like the community was more Western).

As the horse approached the fence he had an alert, gorgeous expression, ears pointed at the fence. Upon landing his demeanor changed to agitation and his ears went back. Every time she popped him over the small fence, the expression changed on landing.

My trainer rode him next and he was not a fan of being ridden a little more on the bit, but he complied. She rode him in circles and figures of eight popped him over the same fence. He had the same gorgeous/alert expression that switched to irritation.

It was my turn and I felt guilty getting on the horse. It was about 97 degrees, he had only been ridden about 3 times in the last month and here I was, the third person on him in the span of 15 minutes. I loved how responsive he was and once I picked up the canter, I could have cantered him all afternoon (not really because it was too hot and I’m not in that awesome of shape), but it was super comfy. I didn’t jump him because I had already seen enough.

“So does he receive any injections?” my trainer asked.

He’s had his hocks, stifles and coffin bones injected.

Hocks, I get. Stifles I’m not sure I’ve heard of. Coffin bone? That was the last nail pounded into the coffin where my hope–that he might be the one–died.

He also had special pads in front and shoes all the way around. Even if he did pass a pre-purchase exam, the thought of the expense for his upkeep was too much.

I knew my decision at that point but I didn’t have the courage to be that up front. I did just email the owner (two days after the fact) .

Hi —-,

I wanted to follow up with you on your horse. He is so beautiful and I had fun cruising around on him, but I don’t think he’s “the one” for me. 
Thank you so much for your time and it was nice meeting you and hearing his wonderful story about how you came together to be a team. 
I wish him well and will keep my fingers crossed that he meets his new perfect match very soon.
The second horse was cute. He had the longest gray forelock and an Arabian looking face. He had a sturdier look than the other horse and so I thought he was pretty promising.
The barn this guy lives at is a little slice of paradise. The ocean breeze reached this valley and it was a long aisle of box stalls that look out onto the pretty white-fenced arena. There were two large palm trees growing in the middle of the arena. A most picturesque facility. My trainer and I commented how we wanted to move in (not horses, ourselves–just live there).
The gray appeared sound and he too went around on a loose rein. His trainer said he really prefers having his own 5 minutes to warm up and then he’ll be game for the rider to establish contact and start influencing. He reminded me of an overgrown pony. He wasn’t elegant, but so cute.
My trainer got on and again tried getting more of a connection and asking him to go on the bit. He stood his ground so to speak and really resisted. So she rode him the way he liked and it was okay. She popped him around some small fences and he went nicely.
When I got on and after a lap of walking, asked for a trot, he started cantering. I failed in getting him to slow so instead of being a persistent rider and doing the right thing of trying again, I just went with it because his canter was really smooth. I started cracking up. He did not want to pay attention to my aids.
I switched directions across the diagonal and the horse did his own flying lead change. I didn’t really attempt asking him to do anything because he didn’t seem like he was going to respond anyway.
I’m not sure how I slowed him down, but we did end up trotting and changing direction and doing a few circles. I had the giggles intermittently because the horse was kind of listening, but kind of doing his own thing, but he clearly wasn’t dangerous or a runaway.
When we got into the car my trainer said she didn’t like the gray at all–she preferred the bay (if he were sound) as he was the more responsive of the two. I said the gray was kind of funny. She said he was definitely a first horse kind of horse and that his price was definitely too high for the quality of horse he is.
So that sums up my Thursday horse shopping experience. I got to know my trainer more and I respect her and like her even better after having spent many hours in the car together. She’s good people.

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14 Comments

  1. geoff August 2, 2014 at 4:19 pm - Reply

    hi love this blog……im a uk riding boot lover and wearer…..Your blog is great..

  2. judi nealy August 2, 2014 at 4:59 pm - Reply

    Hi, I do so enjoy hearing your stories.
    I am glad you don’t purchase the first one..but then again that might have been the one.
    I am glad that I learned about horses from Barbara.!
    love you,Judi

  3. Wanda August 2, 2014 at 5:59 pm - Reply

    Horse shopping, how fun!! Though frustrating sometimes 🙂
    Just wanted to note that Stifle injection are not too uncommon and certainly not scary. I know you mentioned a concern about that. Of the 30 jumping horse’s I have in my barn, I have 4 that currently receive stifle injections for routine maintenance. So…. not super common but acceptable in my opinion. It is quite a bit more common for my competitively jumping horses to receive Hocks and Coffin joints instead. Just depends on the individual needs.
    However, I can see where once you add them all together in the same horse it starts to become daunting. Stifles, hocks, Coffin joints, special shoeing with pads, AND the note that he seemed disgruntled or uncomfortable on the other side of the fence starts to be just too much to swallow financially and makes you wonder how the pre-purchase vet exam is going to go.
    I was cracking up about the Big Grey Pony 🙂 Definitely have met a few of those, love them! They are worth their weight in gold for those “new rider” adult amatuers that maybe would be better off with a horse NOT listening to their confusing aids. LOL
    It’s like their saying “Look lady, I know what I’m doing. You just stay out of my way, don’t argue with me, and for god-sakes try to stay on please”

    Thanks for sharing your experiences, Good luck on your search!!

  4. Rodney's Saga August 2, 2014 at 5:59 pm - Reply

    Horse hunting. Gaaa.

    • Susan Friedland-Smith August 2, 2014 at 7:08 pm - Reply

      Maybe I should look for your horse and you look for my horse. We can expand our geographical reach that way. 🙂

  5. Shirley Burns, 1958 classmate of your MOM August 2, 2014 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    Enjoyed reading about your search for the perfect new horse. Best of luck. Love reading your blogs. sure enjoy seeing your Mom each month too. Se sent me a picture of you and your sisters. Best to you, Sincerely, Shirley Burns

    • Susan Friedland-Smith August 4, 2014 at 10:32 pm - Reply

      Thank you, Shirley. I’m honored you read my blog so faithfully. I hope it’s not too technical in the horse department. I want experienced horse people and non-horse people to both enjoy reading it. 🙂

  6. Midwestern Plant Girl August 3, 2014 at 5:23 am - Reply

    Wow. Much harder to find a house than a good man. …

  7. Lauren August 4, 2014 at 8:09 am - Reply

    Sorry about the bay. Stifles and hocks wouldn’t both me (I do hocks and financially would love to do stifles as well) but I agree with you. Coffin joint and I’m out! Especially depending on how young that horse was.

    • Susan Friedland-Smith August 4, 2014 at 10:29 pm - Reply

      Yes, the coffin joint sounds ominous. The horse was 10. Unraced. Current owner bought him as a 4 year old. She claimed all the injections were preventative because a previous horse really broke down, so she wanted to give this one a greater chance by pre-empting the problems through injections. I have never heard of that either. I actually feel a little sheltered in that my previous three horses have all been pretty sound.

  8. carey August 4, 2014 at 8:37 am - Reply

    Too bad neither worked out, but it sounds like you made the right call. On to the next one!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith August 4, 2014 at 10:31 pm - Reply

      And I just saw video of a cool Irish sporthorse. He slipped through my hands. Someone put a deposit down on him. The breeder was sweet and asked me what I was looking for. I gave her my wishlist in a text message. She said she needed to clone this horse that the deposit is on, but that she would ask around to see if other friends of hers/breeders have anything. I’m learning through all this there are some really nice strangers in this world. People who don’t even know me are pulling for me. 🙂

      • carey August 4, 2014 at 10:52 pm

        Yay! You’re going to find something great!

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