Update 2023: This blog post went viral when posted in 2017. I hope what I learned the hard way will provide enhanced safety for my fellow riders. 

I’m temporarily out of the saddle due to a freak accident. The initial tears I cried were not of pain, but fear as the image sank in of Knight spiraling out of control, whinnying and doing donuts then landing on the ground, hooves in the air next to a large wooden mounting block.

(If you were hoping for a post about glazed or powdery sweets–sorry.)

Thank the Lord I fell off at the beginning of the chaos.

For some odd reason, I adjusted my riding helmet a little tighter than normal before my riding lesson last week. It just didn’t feel right on my head and so I took it off, tightened the chin strap, and started over.
Afterward, when he knew I was okay, my husband optimistically said, “Great writing material.” And when my trainer called later that evening and I told her what hubby said, her response was, “You should. I see people let their horse chew on the tip of their boots all the time.”

Please don’t let your horse get its face near your iron!

Keep. Your. Horse’s. Face. Away. From. The. Stirrup.

Don’t even let him or her turn to the side to get a fly.

I have never heard of or witnessed this type of accident–bit caught on stirrup–before and I have been active with horses for over 30 years.

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I Was Done Riding When I Got Dumped

Our riding lesson went as usual before the fall.

When we were done, my friend and I rode our horses in a cool down lap around the property. We ended near the cross ties where she untacks, but were midconversation and kept talking while on our halted horses.

Knight was mouthy and I had to pluck the rein out of his mouth while we stood there chatting away. At one point he grabbed the martingale strap underneath his face and nibbled. I jerked it away. This EOTRH puppy chewing is really annoying.

And dangerous.

What happened next was terrifying.

Knight turned his head I think to the left–it’s kind of a blur–and before I could react to jerk the right rein, it happened in a flash.

My gelding intended to bite on the stirrup iron my foot was in, but the iron (Herm Sprenger Bow Balance) bit back. It caught on the side of his D-ring snaffle. He then panicked and did about two donuts before I flew off and landed on my right thigh and elbow.

I hit hard and was down. The impact stunned me to the point I couldn’t immediately react.

My friend leaped off her mare, handed me the reins as I was rising like a zombie, and authoritatively shouted for me to move her horse out of the way of Knight who was literally spiraling out of control. Doubled over in pain, I took a few steps into the safety of the cross ties and the smart mare followed me and stood like a statue.

Meanwhile, I witnessed my scared horse spinning and spinning like a crazed top.

Knight traveled about fifty feet away, down a small incline until he crashed, landed on his side, then back. His four hooves faced the sky. (My friend texted me the next day to say she checked the outline in the dirt of where he fell and it was about a foot away from the mounting block.)

I had this brief thought, “That’s the end of him,” but was relieved to see him pop back up.

In his fall the bit and stirrup iron disconnected. My friend grabbed his reins and walked him a few steps and he moved fine, immediately dropping his head in relief.

By this time my trainer who had been teaching made it over to me and had me sit down on a tack trunk, asked me what day of the week it was and if I could wiggle my toes.

She examined my helmet and told me there wasn’t a scratch or any dust on it. My friend came and sat next to me and put her arm around me.

My trainer said she was so glad I fell off, “it could have been so much worse.”

My periwinkle sunshirt now has a small hole on the right elbow, and I have two large bruises on my hip and thigh. Holes can be patched and bruises heal. Knight had a small cut and when the vet came out, she said he was fine and to keep giving him Bute.

Processing the Trauma

Even though I escaped a severe injury, I felt emotionally delicate for the next couple of days.

I called my friend who is a psychologist as I drove home; she listened. That night I did not sleep well and even was shouting in my sleep. My husband had to wake me up to stop my nightmares. I kept dreaming dark dreams and waking up every couple of hours, but I didn’t remember any details of them.

I texted my psychologist friend the next day and told her about the shouting and my dreams and asked if that was normal. Her response: “Yes, absolutely. You may have that for a while.” (The next night I slept just fine)

Healing Up (Body and Spirit)

The good news is that I already had a chiropractic appointment set up for the next day. And I arranged another one for the following day. During the second appointment I had my neck, wrist, left foot, pelvis, and spine adjusted. He urged me to keep icing for 20 minutes at a time.

“I have so many sore areas, where do I ice?” He said in a fall situation to ice the places that had the impact.

Knight is due for a chiropractic appointment too.

As I processed this event over the phone a bit more when my trainer called, we talked about how it was just a freak thing. It wasn’t Knight’s fault, it wasn’t my fault–that sometimes these types of things happen with horses. She said she thought I was one of the more careful, safety-conscious riders she knows.

And that felt good to hear.

Please Share This Post

I don’t typically ask people to share my blog posts (love it when they do!), but if you can forward this one along to a friend whether via email or social media, I would be grateful. My goal is not to sensationalize or scare people, but just let fellow horse lovers know that such a simple thing–letting your horse turn its head while you’re halted, can escalate into a dangerous situation. And it can happen so quickly.

The other thing I’d like to add is Knight is not a spooky horse. He has a good brain and is not a lunatic. So if this can happen to an experienced rider on a sensible horse, it can happen to just about anyone.

Update: I have learned so much from people who’ve commented on this post and in the Facebook comments that I wrote this companion blog post containing fellow horse lovers’ wisdom.

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40 Comments

  1. Centered in the Saddle May 31, 2017 at 7:07 am - Reply

    Wow, I’m so glad to hear you are both okay – and I’m definitely going to be more aware of my horse’s head turning while I’m mounted from now on!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 11:52 am - Reply

      Thank you! And I think your blog’s name “Centered in the Saddle” could be representative of not just having a good seat/connection/mindfulness while riding–it will be my mantra for not allowing Knight to turn his head to the side. Staying centered is perfect.

  2. heartofhope10 May 31, 2017 at 7:20 am - Reply

    Oh wow, so so scary! I’m really glad to hear that you two are going to be okay! May I ask if you were using a full cheek snaffle? My trainer discourages them for their ability to get hooked places, but I honestly kind of thought she was being overdramatic. I can’t imagine watching that. I hope you continue to feel better!

  3. OC Holly May 31, 2017 at 7:21 am - Reply

    Was it a full-cheek snaffle? I’ve vowed never to ride in one (even though William Fox-Pitt recommends them!) after seeing two similar wrecks in the span of a week with horses scratching their heads and getting the point stuck on either their running martingale ring or stirrup. SO SCARY. Very relieved to hear you and Knight are OK. The trauma does stay with you a while.

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 7:39 am - Reply

      So this IS a thing! It was a regular ol’ D-ring snaffle.

      • OC Holly May 31, 2017 at 7:55 am

        I always thought D-rings would be the much safer choice!! Yikes!

  4. Avery May 31, 2017 at 7:39 am - Reply

    I am so glad you and Knight are ok! I am so sorry this happened and it raddled you so. I bet it raddled Knight too. Maybe try an ice bath for you? I was going to suggest a chiro for Knight as well. I know a horse that did something similar. The rider was standing holding him by the reins at the arena fence talking to someone. Young horse. He was mouthing and playing with the stirrup. Rider did not think much of it. Somehow, in biting the stirrup, the horse got the stirrup caught around his lower jaw behind his teeth! He had a similar freak out to Knight, except a little worse. He went more upwards before coming down. Broke the tree of the saddle. Somehow ripped his ear length wise down the middle. I think he also ripped up his face. He ended up being just fine at the end of the day, just with a goofy fork ear. Crazy. Check your saddle tree!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 7:43 am - Reply

      Poor guy! Do you know if the stirrup iron was run up or hanging down? I went straight home and my trainer untacked and put everything away. Then I left town for the long weekend to see my niece graduate. So I haven’t been to the barn and I’ve been wondering about my saddle. 🙁

      • Avery May 31, 2017 at 8:08 am

        It was a western saddle, so down…and bigger. But I could see it happening on an english saddle too. Whenever I see one try to play with a stirrup, I stop it…I also retie people’s horses that are tied too long and are reaching for the stirrup! lol

      • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 11:53 am

        You answered one of my questions which was “Would this have happened with a larger, Western stirrup?” The answer is yes.

  5. Lauren May 31, 2017 at 8:21 am - Reply

    Oh that’s so scary. Good advice though, because this is something I let Simon do all the time. Glad you are both okay!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 11:54 am - Reply

      Thanks, Lauren. Super scary. And the weird thing is this fall was 21 years and one day to my last catastrophic fall which required follow up plastic surgery on my nose.

  6. Exploringdressagebiomechanics May 31, 2017 at 8:40 am - Reply

    Scary! Glad you are both ok.

  7. L. Williams May 31, 2017 at 9:04 am - Reply

    I’m sorry hat happened to you, it’s always scary when they fall down too. Glad you are both ok.

  8. Olivia @ DIY Horse Ownership May 31, 2017 at 9:30 am - Reply

    I’m glad you’re okay. I’ve always heard warning about that happening, but never heard a first hand report.

  9. Amanda C May 31, 2017 at 10:23 am - Reply

    I’ve seen and heard of this happening before. Usually with full cheeks (which is why I’m SO INSANE about putting keepers on, and putting them on correctly) but it can happen easily with d-rings too. I’ve also seen a horse get the martingale in his mouth, get stuck, panic, and break his jaw. Definitely always have to be mindful of what the mouth is doing.

  10. Lindsey May 31, 2017 at 6:00 pm - Reply

    I had a horse reach around to bite a fly or my foot and I tried to bump him with my toe to discourage it and somehow the stirrup got in his mouth and around his lower jaw. He started to spin and i immediately dropped my other stirrup. As I went to push off off him he fell and cracked my tailbone with the back of my saddle (so painful). He was laying there and all I could think was he was going to break his neck and my saddle so I scrambled around and quickly undid the girth to relieve the pressure. He stood up and spun around stirrup still in his mouth but saddle loose. It flew around the circle with him when the stirrup finally came loose the saddle flew away and the horse and I just stood there staring at each other. SO SCARY. Very glad you are ok!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith May 31, 2017 at 6:16 pm - Reply

      Ouch. Ouch. Ouch! Lindsey, I have injured my tailbone twice in my life and that pain ain’t no joke. I cannot do some yoga poses I swear because I can’t allow pressure to be straight on my tailbone. Like that one where you lie on your back and lift your legs and at the same time crunch forward. Ug. I am so glad you guys made it out of that situation. I feel like you need to write your own blog post on this because you demonstrated extreme quick-thinking and I honestly don’t know if I would have thought to do that. I feel like you’re a heroine! Was your saddle okay? And how is your tailbone today?

      • Lindsey May 31, 2017 at 8:35 pm

        Lol thank you! Somehow my saddle didn’t even get a scratch on it! My tailbone is mostly fine now, takes me a while to stand up straight after long periods in the car though. That was the third (and worst) time I’ve hurt it and yeah such terrible slow healing pain.

    • Valerie May 31, 2017 at 8:40 pm - Reply

      So glad you are ok!
      Lindsey – The same thing happened to me and my horse after I got off, loosened the girth and ran up the irons. He went to get a fly and got the iron caught in his jaw. Unfortunately, I was not able to get to the girth. I thought he would break his neck and I was helplessly watching. Eventually he ripped the girth leathers off of my saddle to free himself. He stood with my saddle hanging from his mouth. I was never so happy to see my saddle in pieces. So glad everyone is ok. I used to run the extra leather tab though the loop of my irons…not anymore.

  11. Liz Goldsmith May 31, 2017 at 7:09 pm - Reply

    So glad you and Knight are both okay! Zelda always wants to scratch her head on things and she once got her bit caught on a hook. Pulled it right out of the wall! I can’t imagine how frightening it was to be still mounted when that happened. Shared on EquineInk.

  12. Chloe May 31, 2017 at 7:14 pm - Reply

    Thanks for sharing! Hope and Knight are feeling better.

  13. Leslie May 31, 2017 at 9:03 pm - Reply

    This happened with an unflappable 20-something Morgan lesson horse I rode as a teenager. No one was on him at the time. He reached back to scratch an itch and got his lower jaw stuck on the stirrup. He started to panic and back up, but as I remember someone was able to grab the leather and yank it off the stirrup bar pretty quickly. It’s been more than 20 years now, but the incident stuck with me. I’m pretty adamant about keeping the stirrups run up because of it, but I wouldn’t have thought something like that could happen while a foot was in the stirrup! Good thing to be aware of, and I’m glad you and Knight are okay.

  14. Liz June 1, 2017 at 5:28 am - Reply

    Sounds like a hard fall! I’m glad Knight is okay.

  15. draftmare June 1, 2017 at 10:09 am - Reply

    So glad that you are okay!!! I have heard of this happening before with a horse’s full cheek snaffle getting caught on a stirrup iron. I am glad that yours turned out okay, the similar accidents I have heard about have resulted in a broken neck for the horse. 🙁

    • Susan Friedland-Smith June 1, 2017 at 11:38 am - Reply

      That sounds terrible! Since I shared this on Facebook there is a lot of commenting going on over there and I have heard a bunch of similar stories. I hope this will help prevent some future tragedies.

  16. Tessa June 1, 2017 at 2:17 pm - Reply

    Been there, done that! Fortunately my horse went down first half circle, and neither of us were hurt. That’s the one thing people can never seem to understand, if it can happen, IT WILL. And yet we still follow our crazy dreams…

  17. Susan Harris June 1, 2017 at 5:39 pm - Reply

    Such a timely post… I have a new mare I have been working with on standing still at the mounting block. I had been rewarding her after mounting with a treat which required her to flex to the side to get it out of my hand. NO MORE! She is quite mouthy, and from now on I will be certain to tie her short enough that she can’t get her head around to her side while tacked up. Thank you for sharing your harrowing experience, and so glad you both survived with only bruises.

  18. Lynn June 1, 2017 at 8:18 pm - Reply

    I have experienced this as a coach only once, and was so utterly lucky the pony in question did not panic. In our case, I to this day have no idea HOW he got the stirrup wedged behind his bit and in his back molar–I assumed he was chewing a mosquito or bug bite as it was a humid July evening. The rider was an adult who weighed about 90 pds and could ride ponies. We were halted to practice some turn on the haunches and I was explaining the aids, when I saw the pony reach to scratch his side, only his head then didn’t move. The rider looked at me and said ‘I think he’s stuck’. It was 1997, so we had no spring load stirrups. Just your average standard type. I was in the middle of the arena and it felt like I was in the next county as I had to walk slowly as to not startle him. I told her to pat him and talk to him quietly and hold his head in the same place. If he panicked, we were done for—he’d break his jaw. I finally got to her and was patting him and talking to him and she was able to slide off on the wrong side as I attempted to find a way to release the stirrup from his mouth. I had NO idea how he got it in there, so my only solution was to undo the bit/cheek piece. Once the bit came out of his mouth, the stirrup was free. He yawned and licked his lips and was happy to straighten his head and we just kept praising him with happy tones and found some treats to give him. I massaged his cheek and then made sure he was ok before re-bridling him(well, reattaching the cheek piece and putting the bit back in his mouth). He was such a good boy. I heard that this had happened to another horse at the barn, and he panicked and did exactly what your boy did, and eventually fell down in exhaustion. They were able to release him and thankfully, he was ok too!

    Very, very scary to watch. Glad you and your boy are ok!!!

  19. Tina June 4, 2017 at 8:12 am - Reply

    This happenend to a fellow rider at a barn I rode at about 12 years ago. I never forgot that incident. His horses’ bit got stuck in the stirrup after he was done in the ring during a show – standing with a longer reign at the side line. His horse turned half a circle and then realizing he was stuck, he panicked. His horse reared up and the rider fell off backwards breaking his pelvis and a few ribs. Luckily, the horse fell not directly on top of him. He spent weeks in the hospital and several months before he was able to get back in the saddle. A freak accident but it can happen….

    • Susan Friedland-Smith June 4, 2017 at 8:59 am - Reply

      Thank you for sharing that story, Tina. What a relief to hear that man was not more seriously injured–I mean weeks in the hospital sounds terrible, but at least he was able to ride again. Yikes.

  20. rooth June 6, 2017 at 6:31 am - Reply

    I’m glad you’re both okay. Accidents are scary when they happen and can leave more mental than physical trauma. Wishing you a swift mental recovery!

  21. Tracy - Fly On Over June 19, 2017 at 1:44 pm - Reply

    Oh my gosh, how scary!! I’m so glad you’re both okay. I’ve never heard of that happening before, and my mare loves to turn her head around near my stirrup — that stops now!!

    • Susan Friedland-Smith June 20, 2017 at 6:51 am - Reply

      Thanks, for reading, Tracy and I’m so glad to hear that you will now have this piece of safety awareness! Yay for the horsey blogosphere!

  22. trishhyatt August 4, 2021 at 10:54 pm - Reply

    I luckily was not on my horse but saw this same thing.
    Young quarterhorse I was starting had a western saddle on.
    He reached around to play with the stirrup and when he bit it, it moved.
    That scared him and a scared horse clamps their mouth shut.
    He went to straighten his neck and the stirrup followed him and then stopped and he flipped up and over and it all happened in a spit second.
    I was glad I saw it, for two reasons.
    One: so I knew why he flipped over
    Two: so I knew to never let a horse get their mouth near the stirrup.
    Thanks for the reminder.
    Glad you’re both okay.

    • Susan Friedland August 5, 2021 at 4:14 pm - Reply

      It’s such an eye opener to see this. I can’t handle seeing artsy photos of people on Instagram or FB where the horse’s neck is reaching back as they lean forward to pet or treat them. Ug!

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